How do i get my best friend to forgive me?

she was talkin to me online and asking me if she wanted to go out to lunch tomorrow and put flowers on her moms grave and i ignored cuz i had so many commitments the next day and she gets kinda mad wen i say hafta work or something so i didnt talk to her but i was talkin to my friend kaytie and kaytie asked what i was doing tomorrow and i said work and kenzie my friend that wont forgive me was like "its funny that your talking to everybody but me" and i pretended i was iming her the whole time and she just didnt get the ims and i made it look like i was like "kenzie are you therE" i sent the ims to kaytie and all this stuff and kaytie sent it to kenzie and kenzie flipped out and just caught me lying and now she doesnt trust me i was just so flustered and i dont kno how to get her to forgive me i left flowers on her moms grave but thats not enough i appoligized a million times.. sry that was so confusing but what do i do?

How do i get my best friend to forgive me?
sorry I got lost after the first line, I think its my age, I really don't understand your question but thanks for the points!!!!
Reply:always keep saying i am SO sorry, and keep telling her how much she means. if that doesnt help, just remember what a true friend would do.
Reply:Just tell her the truth and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't forgive you then she's not your best friend. You two should be able to talk things out and understand each other if she is your best friend. Sorry if I sound a bit critical.
Reply:Wow. Well first off quit apologizing. Maybe write her a letter admitting your wrong and letting her know that you understand why she has lost your trust (hopefully you do)

Then leave her alone for about a day, after that call her and ask her to meet you for lunch or something, because it's better to do things in person than it won't be seeming like your trying to find a easy way out. Talk to her, let her know how bad you feel.
Reply:Actually it is very wrong to brake friendship with your best friend, but if u really don't like her then you should convince her by sending your message to her through greeting cards or you can send her a e-mail.
Reply:What you did was kinda jacked up. If she's your best friend you should tell her that you're kinda occupied and have many commitments, but if you have time later you'll call her up and tell her, don't just ignore her, if she's supposed to be your best friend and on top of that don't play instant messenger games, how would you like if she did that to you? Not so nice. Anywho, considering you sincerely apologized already wait for her to come around, that's all you can do. And when she returns, wanting to be your friend again reassure her that you won't do that again and that you're sorry and that you do enjoy hanging with her.
Reply:no offence but ur a sorta bad friend for ignorin her. i mean it is her moms grave....



but what you can do is just explain to her in IM, voicemail and everything you can do to get through to her. i do mean that you should leave her a message in everything you can find so whatever she do, she'll hear or see your message.



and then after that one message to everything that can get through to her, stop calling and apologizing and wait to see if she forgives you. if she does, then shes cool to forgive you but if she doesnt then shes not a real friend anymore. you tried your best and if your best friend really cared about you she would def forgive you. u just need to give her time to chill out.