Is it ok to send red roses to a girl that you are not officially in a relationship with?

I started talking to a girl last spring. We met through a friend but with school and work we have not gotten a chance to actually meet face to face yet. The thing is we have become very close while talking online and over the phone. We both seem to have feelings for each other and have said "I love you" back and forth a few times.



So with that I would like to do something nice for her for Valentine's Day. I thought sending flowers would let her know how much I care about her. The thing is I'm not sure if red roses are best considering how those are supposed to be a symbol for love and even though I do feel like I love her I don't want to scare her away. Any suggestions would be great. Thank you.

Is it ok to send red roses to a girl that you are not officially in a relationship with?
As long as she isn't in a relationship with someone else, it should be fine.....send her white roses or fire %26amp; ice roses....(or puple, yellow, etc.....) don't send red if you don't feel comfortable....
Reply:Girls love flowers! Don't send too many though, or try wildflowers, it says you care without being too mushy
Reply:If you really have the urge to send flowers, send half a dozen pink ones. Red is to much of a statement. Afterall, you haven't even met her face to face yet.
Reply:Well, why are you contradicting yourself?First, you said that you have said 'I love you' back and forth and then you say you don't feel as if you love her?I say you take a second look on what you really feel. Red roses are great. Who told you they are only meant for 'lovers'?That's a lie. It's a good gift, and maybe you can throw a few chocolates. Not if she's fat,though. Have fun.
Reply:the roses sound a little heavy starting out why not a simple card for starters you sound like a very loveing and careing guy if the relationship grows she will see that in you p.s/ woman love to do the chasing
Reply:sure, that'd be cool.
Reply:I think that is so sweet!

She'll love them!
Reply:yeah good idea ..!! go for it ..!!
Reply:Send her a bouquet of spring flowers that should do it.
Reply:Well if you want to be careful about it you could always send her whatever flowers she likes the most.



Pick up the phone call her, ask her what her favorite flowers are and then send her those.



If it happens to be red roses then send her pink or white or yellow roses.



Luck!
Reply:send her the roses.....trust me
Reply:Yes-I would send a different color though to keep from scaring her away
Reply:I love getting roses I say send them...but if you dont want to send the wrong signal send white roses. White=friends Red=love maybe you could send a dozen of each
Reply:yeah that would be okay
Reply:Go for it! She'll love it!

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