A guy having trouble is this a good idea for my friend(girl)?

i'm a 22yr old guy and i have this friend(girl) that i've known for about the last 7 months but she lives in another state we met on holidays and we use to talk online all the time but we haven't talked for a few weeks i sent her a text asking her how her holiday has been and she didn't answer me back(but maybe be she didn't get the text either)

i was going to fly down and see her for her birthday in a few months and i will tell her before hand that i'm coming so it's not weird i was going to get her a bunch of her fav flowers(yellow frangipani's) and a hand written card what do you think is this a good idea and how long before i go should i tell her that i'm coming a week before or what?

if you have any advice i would love to her it girls help thanks



by the way i'm not looking for anything with her i just wanted to see her again becuz she makes me feel so happy when i'm around her and we always hav fun together but if anything did happend with us i wouldn't say no

A guy having trouble is this a good idea for my friend(girl)?
Since you're not sure if she got the text or not...you obviously have her phone number...pick up the phone and actually talk to her. If she doesn't answer, then leave a message...say...hey, haven't heard from you in a while...miss talking to you...I know you're birthday is coming up soon and I wanted to talk to you about that...catch up with you and see what you've been up to, call me back!



If she doesn't answer, or doesn't return your call, then she doesn't want to see you.