How can I leave him? I know I should have left him, but I couldn't.?

I have dated this guys for 2 years and love him very much (I'm 20 years old, he's 22). I found out that he already had a girlfriend. He explained to me that he cared for me but his gf didn't do anything wrong,so he couldn't break up with her. I understood his situaton and willing to be his second gf. We continue our relatioship for a while. But somehow I think it's wrong, so I broke up with him. After the day of the broke up, he came over to my house, hold me tight, kissed me, and said he didn't want to lose me. We got back together b/c I love him. Then a few days later, he called and said "ok, let's broke up". I cried really hard, but still wanted him back. We chat online %26amp; I told him him: don't come to me anymore b/c he'll make it harder for me to break up with him. Yesterday, he came to my house and brought flowers to me. I couldn't reject his love, we got back together again. Help me. I know I am wrong. But I love him very much and I want to be with him. I need your advice!

How can I leave him? I know I should have left him, but I couldn't.?
omg he is being mean tell him laying down the law



" you cant have us both choose" that will prove how much he loves you



ohh and if he has cheated on his present gf snd she hasnt done anything think what he could do to you ! ive lernt from experience once a cheat always a cheat !!
Reply:Think about how much he loves you!! He won't even put you before his other woman thats how much respect he has for you!! You've been seeing him for two years which probably means you have missed out on some of the funnest times of your life going out and having fun with your mates dancing, drinking flirting with nice guys! Cut this loser out your life he's not your boyfrien he's a complete idiot!! If life was a movie you'd get together with his REAL gf and dump him simaltaneously! As this is not a movie I suggest you do not spend anymore of your life on this guy its a complete waste of your precious time, self respect . I am sure you are a lovely girl so why give yourself any less than you deserve!
Reply:Its time to get angry because we are stronger when we are mad.You have to believe hes just using you .You are not his first pick. He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. Tell his girlfriend what has been going on behind her back that way he'll be on his own .Girl I'm sorry you let yourself fall for this guy but you've wasted enough of your precious time .The right guy is out there but he couldnt have you because you were with a cheat. Now that you are on your own get strong ,stop texting ,talking and seeing him .Cut him OFF!!!

Things will get better .This is a learning process and if you dont learn from it you will have to go through it again in the future.

Good Luck
Reply:He's not worth having...why would you love someone so cruel? Does the other girl know? I bet not...unless you BOTH know he's dating others and are BOTH okay with it, then the situation isn't okay, he's cheating with you, and you're both racking up bad karma.



Move on and find someone who isn't such a jerk.
Reply:If you want to be 2nd best all your life then that's up to you but I certainly wouldn't .
Reply:honey im sorry but do you want to be sloppy seconds? find some one who really loves you and will treat you right :)

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