Is it alright to send a girl flowers as a secret admirer?

A few months ago I seen a girl at an event that I had not seen in a very long. Now at this event she ended up sitting close to me, I mean VERY close and at one point she even put her hand through my hair ,kinda playing around. I didnt act on her advances at the time because she had a boyfriend and still does, but I'm not sure how serious their relationship is. I've talked to her a few times online since, nothing about her relationship just how she was doing. Would being a secret admirer be inapporiate with her having a boy friend. Is she ever worth it seeing that she flirted with me when she had a boy friend...lol

Is it alright to send a girl flowers as a secret admirer?
Send her flowers!

But make sure she knows it is not you

include a typed note like...I'd let you know who I am if it weren't for your boyfriend..



See how she reacts

If she is disgusted she never has to know it was you and you know to back off

Or if she shows her boyfriend



worth a try.

good luck!
Reply:ummm...thats a hard one. it really does depend on how far they are into their relationship. it hes really protective he might not like the idea of her having a secret admirer. but if you feel you want to send her flowers go for it!!!



good luck :)
Reply:I think that you should ask her how serious they are because it could hurt both if not all three of you! Just make sure that she is truthful and up front. Being a secret admirer is ok and fun but becareful, her boyfriend may be the jealous type.
Reply:Try it, it cant hurt. Just don't give it away that its you. But if she gets freaked out you should stop. Best of Luck
Reply:it would be verry sweet if she did not have a bf. however this is not the case so just hint that youd like her in other ways such as saying "youre one of the coolest girls ive met" online or something. then when they break up shes yours.
Reply:It is a romantic notion and all, but be prepared to deal with the consequences of your actions... remember there will be an opposite and equal reaction... no way of knowing if it will be in your favor or against you... and you will have to come clean at some point... how would you feel if you were her boyfriend? Just a few things to think about.
Reply:I think that would be fun. Try it. I don't think the worse could happened. Maybe she would be a bit confused but other then that, I think most chicks would like the thought of knowing someone is thinking of them. Try it dude



Good luck.

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