Feeling rejected and neglected in a long distance relationship.?

I have been away from home on work for a year, Not My Choice!!!!.But for the last two months, I feel my girlfriend is neglecting me or worse. She recently got a promotion and says she is always busy and tired. She is a teacher.

She replies on the e-mails, but often I just feel that she isn't even reading them - she says I Love You, but they are short and feel hollow. And over skype on the weekends, there is always excuses why we shouldstart chatting late or have to finish early. She thanks me for romantic gestures like surprising her with flowers I send to her.

But She also never initiates online umm..ero chatting anymore.

I asked her about it and the other aspects as gently as possible, and she said she is just tired and the chats make her miss me even more-making the wait worse, that is why she doesn't want to.

I am I wrong, but I feel massively rejected and neglected - Sick to my stomach. I trust her and Love her, but I can't shake the feeling something is wrong. Horribly wrong

Feeling rejected and neglected in a long distance relationship.?
I've been in a LDR for 4 years now and i know how hard it can be. He lives in Germany and i live in California. We are both in school and when i start getting ready for midterms and finals i get very distracted and i tend to neglect my bf. Part of being in a LDR is to make sure you communicate, trust and be honest. My bf tells me when he feels neglected and i stop and evaluate how i've been acting. I understand how talking more makes her remember that you are far away but...not talking is not the solution. If you don't have one get webcams so that you two can see eachother online they are really good. Remember that a LDR takes TWO people, you are making the effort by sending things and trying to be romatic...not its her turn. It will not only make you feel better getting something it will make her feel better because she will be making you happy. Really talk and dont' accept her excuse of being tired or missing you too much, tell her that you really are concerned. I hope that i helped. Let me know if you have anymore questions.
Reply:Dear rejected and neglected,

I think if most of us follow our gut instint we all will be in a better place right now.

If you think something is horribly wrong maybe it is. You have to be logical at the same time as well, most long distance relationship grow apart and she not responding the way she normally do is only cotributioning to push you guys further apart. If she says she loves you and she really do, she should be holding on and answering every email she get form you.

My advice to is to ask her if she want to be the relationship you and if she does open to door to find a solution to your problems, maybe its time to try and find and job in her area it been a year i think by now something should come up.
Reply:LDR sucks!