How do you know if a guy really likes you?

I'm seeing this guy 4.. 3 mths now. He calls me, plays pool online almost everynight and says really nice things about me all the time. We have sex and go out. I need to know if I'm too spolied in realationships. In the past, I have had men I was dating to get out of bed at 2am 4 am and get me medicine for stomach cramps, bring/send me flowers all the time for reasons and no reasons at all. I have deal with chronic pain and am use to massages 2 times a day. If I need an item or something that I couldn't afford. I'm use to guys that I have dated getting or helping me get it. This guy that I'm seeing now doesn't do any of that. I feel that he doesn't really like me. Maybe just uses me for sex and company. I feel this way b/c he doesn't offer to bring me meds or give massages send me flowers all the time and buy me a cell phone b/c I'm having a tough time financially right now. How do I know? Am I wrong to expect such kind and out of the way gestures from all men to feel loved and wanted

How do you know if a guy really likes you?
I'm sure he likes you, he just isn't a "sugar daddy" that you are looking for/used to having.
Reply:Look at his pants.
Reply:that is really spoiled..i dont think he really likes you
Reply:Not that you're spoil but that's what they suppose to do if they're into you? So, what happened to those relationship in the past?



Its not easy to find a good guy now a day if you found someone that really care and love you, stick with him. This guy that you're talking to seem like he just wants you for sex, just watch out. I've been thru this a couple of times....thinking that maybe just maybe I can change him or maybe its not the right time for him to show me. How is he with you other wise?



Listen to your gut feeling its usually true....don't fight it. Don't let anyone use you. Be confidence in yourself, most of all love yourself.



By the way you're not wrong to want it......and its possible to find someone like that, but you also have to treat him the same way he's treating you.
Reply:just cuz he doesnt spoil u doesnt mean he doesnt like u

bf arent supposed to buy u a cell fone!

he likes u obviously but he doesnt spoil u

dont expect him to spoil u just cuz hes ur bf

and if he does good for u
Reply:I think any man who buys any girl a cell is a sucker. and getting you things in the middle of the night? opening doors for you? you've got two arms and two legs, do it yourself.
Reply:i think he does like you but your just used to being spoiled by the other guys that it comes as big as a shock to you,i wouldnt get my boyfriend to buy me a mobile randomly even when im older clairex
Reply:yes your wrong .. you were spoilt
Reply:no



when you say nice things, then he wants you to be happy



its nice to feel loved and wanted



maybe he needs that too, maybe more than anything else
Reply:Whoa/......
Reply:you need to place alot more value on your body by sleeping alone for awhile until you get married