I need help with a gift?

My ACNE problem is solved...for now... but i need help with a gift. My original thought was too put Rose pedals on her bed at the hotel with flowers all over it and puts a smaller flower thing for her mom. Is this a stupid idea? Been going out with her for a year and we are finally meeting each other. ( Don't care for the comments on the dating online thing...) Also playing on taking a bath with her (mom already said i could :P) and having no light but the candle light with cinnomon candles. I really need to no if this is stupid or ok. (she loves pink,red roses and cinnomon smell)

I need help with a gift?
Why are you asking her mom permission to take a bath with her? Something isn't right here.
Reply:give herthe gift of respect and WAIT- how disrespectful to her and her mom to have her drive her 15 yo daughter to meet someone she only knows online for this, is her mom crazy??? Online dating is not a problem but come on - are you ready to marry her?? THats a good one - not old enough or mature enough to drive but mature enough to make a life changing decision like sex.

YOU need to GROW UP and learn how to treat a young lady before taking her to bed! and her mom should be arrested!

Have some respect for her AND her mother and give her something unexpected- take her out to dinner, let her and her mom have hte hotel room and let her mom hang out there and order room service while you go out to dinner, then go home to oyur OWN bed and take them both out to lunch the next day

what is WRONG with this world!!!
Reply:It is so romantic and you go for it. I am sure she will love your good intention.
Reply:Getting it on with the mom and daughter? LOL. hmm. but yeah somethings weird here. been with her for a year but barely meeting her? things with her mom? somethings def. wrong
Reply:Fabulous idea. Fabulous!!! I may do this for our wedding anniversary.



And I will not warn you about internet dating, although it is a bit risky. But...



Is this just a desperate act by a horny bachelor? It smells of obsession!



It reminds me of a Doris Day movie where Rock Hudson pulls out all the stops, including sexy music, dim lights, etc., but she crosses him up, getting angry that he is trying to "play" her for "what men always want".



Doris Day was a "good girl" (like my wife). Such inducements could not substitute for a "ring and a date".



You are setting a very high standard for this girl, on your very first face-to-face meeting.



Are you ready to "blow the wad" so soon? If this is for starters, what's left to keep it fun?



Get to know each other more. Intimacy and love can best be expressed by sharing from your heart, and listening to her. Sweet smells, flower petals, and gifts are going to be expected regularly now.



Romance is wonderful in a commited marriage, but this sounds like the kind of night you will propose. Have you considered marriage? Is that our hope?



I do NOT recommend sex on your first meeting. But I can't imagine anything else happening on a bed full of flower petals. It seems unintentionally funny to me. But I'm a guy. What do I know about such things.



I'm glad you've got mommy's approval.



If you want a man's opinion WAIT until you are ready for marriage.



This would be perfect for your wedding night, but what do you do for an encore when you have the "great" night now, right out of the blue? Is this a front, or can you keep it up?



Marry the girl first, and you will be able to relax, and be real!



What is your goal? Is she jail bait? You are working harder than I would. Is she so fabulous, sight unseen, that you have to knock yourself out this way?



Yes, I had a long distance romance, but marriage was in our minds, not cheap sex.



When I met my long distance soul mate I gave her a single rose, and we were engaged soon after.



She is a treasure, happy with tokens of love, and honest communication.



I don't do movie scenes; but I do watch romance movies with her (bum next to bum, on our love seat)!!!
Reply:That sounds pretty good
Reply:Um.....clarification please



Ages? Whats her mom doing there? A little expounding please before we answer
Reply:That's a great idea, but something's weard out here. Why are you asking her mom permission about HER present? I odn't understand. Maybe her mom wants something , but she doesn't and opposite??? Buy her something, too.