Saturday, February 11, 2012

Please help me!?

I have a friend who I have not spoken to in over 11 months now due to her lack of interest as a friend %26amp; questioning me on something she felt she did have to apologize for. I vowed unless she made the first move, I would not talk to her. But out of now where subtly apologized sending me a gift via online, a flower. She had no message with it. I resent her the same gift saying "Thanks for the flowers." We both are college students; live in different states. I do want to get back to talking to her via aim, as thats how we communicate best. But every time I get on,***** I can't seem to send her a message, I'm just afraid history will repeat itself. She also knows I'm available, but won't do the first move. *I never told her I was mad, I just ignored her on aim %26amp; eventually she got the hint, she so sent the gift as an apology to "amend" the friendship, *it's my take thats the logic behind it. Any ideas on how I should be with her/if I should do it ?.

Please help me!?
Awe...whatever you do, make sure you won't regret it. If you don't communicate with her will you regret it later? Consider it, after 11 mos. don't you miss her? What do you have to loose? Only fear of rejection...
Reply:Cool! and thanks! You should know that, that is actually the same thing. There is still expecting involved so it really doesn't matter so only focus on what you really want. Best wishes! Kind of in the same place.... Report It
Reply:Take her off friend speed dial to just some thing stuck between Fat and chance. Move on you need friends you can

depend on. Not a person trying to dance all over you like you

are at fault...NO WAY.

No big deal, no drama and remember this not one word at all



Now get out there and be the strick never lose bulpit you can be
Reply:Gift was a thing to ammend your relation and she started. She made the move, are you still waiting for word "SORRY" or "I APOLOGIZE" , those words and other formal words like thanks etc should not be inbetween friends. You see "To err is human and to forgive is divine" also favors your relation to be on track again. A simple hug and and a beautiful flower with some time for you two only at a silent sea beach etc can help you both.
Reply:stay friends life is way too short to sweat the small stuff.Take the next step and get your friend back
Reply:just try and talk to her....try to get in touch again or else you will always ask yourself "what if..":)


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