Where are the good women?

I tried an online relation, waited for a girl 4 years (we were supposed to meet in 5), %26amp; then found out after 4 years I was being lied to.



We had sent pictures, emails, real mail, real pics, I had sent her flowers by ftd, she had called me, said she loved me.



Only thing is, later, she admitted to having made it all up, she was a different girl, plus 5 years younger than the one she sent pics of. She was using pics of a friend.



This hurt badly, because she was the one who started the online relation, %26amp; I could have had dates with real women who liked me at the time, but they may be married now. Why did she do that to me?



I still feel hurt thinking of it sometimes.



Wonder where I could find a genuine lady at, one who is kind, believes in romance, loves to go on moonlit walks.



I have always been really romantic, but I can't help it. Anyone know where to look for a good woman these days? Many are snobs, or stuck up, but I want a kind %26amp; loving one.



Will appreciate ideas %26amp; advice pls

Where are the good women?
Yeah that online love thing can be hit or miss--usually miss.



You're bound to get tons of advice that includes--"Time will heal all wounds," or "stop looking and then you'll find her," or "she's out there, just be patient." But that's not proactive enough for someone who wants to meet quality people and can't seem to look in the right places.



So here's what I suggest to find the good girls. Enroll in some classes--learn how to use some new software, learn to speak another language, learn business finance, etc. Join a volunteer group like Habitat for Humanity, help out at your local animal or homeless shelter, or try teaching kids to play team sports or musical instruments or arts and crafts. You will run into other smart, sympathetic, driven people. While you're burning off your sadness from the past failed online relationship, you'll be doing something for the greater good, and potentially building meaningful friendships and relationships.



Good luck!
Reply:Awesome, thanks!



I hope you take the advice now! Good luck to you! Report It