Why is he rushing me?

I met someone online, 2weeks ago,or so. Last night he proposed. He went all out too! Flowers, a real nice restranut, a bottle of wine n a soak in the hot tub. The ring is out of this world too! He n I have so much in common n complement each other well.My question is"Why this soon?"

Why is he rushing me?
You need to explain to him that this is a little too soon, and that you need to take your relationship one day at a time. With the divorce rate as high as it is now a days, a lot of people need to learn to just move in slowly on a relationship. No, I’m not talking abut sexually, because that’s all up to you. I’m just talking about the emotional relationship itself. Why is he moving so soon, well I do not know that, sometimes you have to look at the guy himself. Is he one of those guys that have not had a serious relationship yet, and so as soon as he feels like he in a great relationship then he goes all in and proposals. Has this guy met your family yet? Have you met his? From my experience I can say that I was in a relationship for 2 years with a guy and I thought that he was the one. Then he went off to college and we broke up. I was heart broken, but I knew that it was not meant to be. A couple of months later I meant My Husband. We dated for about 2 years, and then he proposed. Now we just celebrated or 3 year anniversary!! I am so glad that I did not stay with the other guy, and that he did go off to college because all that time I thought that he was the one for me, when all along he really wasn’t. I say just tell him the truth on how you really feel, and let the relationship go from there. If it was meant to be then he will stay with you and take it one day at a time, if it was not then it was just not meant to be.
Reply:i think its a little to soon after all you barly know take it easy and time will take its course Report It
Reply:I guess when you feel that you have found the "one" you pull out all the stops and thats what he is doing.. but listen, not saying you should.. but if you accept you don't have to get married straight away.. in years even! BUT he is also from the internet.. think about what his motives!
Reply:he's tryin' to marry you before i get you
Reply:This is waaaaay too fast.



Get to know him.



No guy in their right mind proposes only after 2 weeks.



Someone should propose in at the very least 6 months.
Reply:If you are soaking in the hot tub together he is expecting more
Reply:Well marriage is a not exactly a frat.
Reply:he loves u/ur body ???

u have to decide this first...



if he loves ur body then he will leave u after using u...



decision is urs...
Reply:You can only be rushed if you allow it. I don't understand why people don't ask questions. I am guilty also but my advice to you is simple. Sit down and ask him why he is in such a hurry to get married? The reason why I say this is you say he is insecure and the way he reacts when other men approach you may be a sign. Remember, when a relationship starts out, everyone shows their best and it takes time to see their worst. If he really loves you, slow things down and get to know what is inside the man and not how he treats you. It takes time to understand the level of committment involved with marriage. I know there will be people who say love at first sight and believe me I am not knocking that. Just remember that you already have been through alot by your own admission, so don't make things worst by rushing into something that makes you feel uncomfortable. I am glad that you are feeling better about yourself, and maybe this is the man for you. But remember, you have to be happy with yourself, and if you are, then I'll be the first person to say congrats!!!



Take care and as always, my prayers are with you



WT
Reply:becasue he like you
Reply:He met you 2 weeks ago? and he gave you a ring already? WHOAAA HOLD THE HORSES!!!



Do not for any reason believe this guy is normal. If I were you, I would give him the ring back, and tell him that you like him very very much... and that you really really want to get to know him much better, but not while you guys are engaged.



If you're going to be married, it is very important that this man is your best friend. In order to be best friends, you need to know each other really well, and accept each other as is.



Be very very careful. You don't know him yet. He may turn out to be someone you won't be able to get rid of.



Look at his finances, or his past. He may be bankrupt and needs someone to bail him out. Or, he may have a beat up ex-wife, or he may have a criminal record.



Further, he may have a sexual disfunction, and he may want to trap you into marriage. You should also get an Aids test, to be sure.



Good Luck.
Reply:The same thing dixie said
Reply:HE IS HORNY!
Reply:he wants to hide his secrets so he's rushing u so he can have someone without losing them.
Reply:Sounds like a true romantic, a crazy one. Nothing against you, I'm sure you deserve it. Do you know what this guy likes to do, hates, pet peeves,...........in two weeks there is no way possible to know someone well enough to form a bond strong enough for a lifetime.
Reply:You're gonna have to ask him, but be REALLY careful here. How many marriage has he had? How many kids? How bad is his credit? Does he need to stay in the country? Does he need your money? Think of all the rotten things, honey. Too many guys out there do the love scam. It's possible that he is just impetuous, but really, if he loves you, he will wait for you. And I don't mean a month, I mean more like 2 years.
Reply:Ask yourself one Question. Can u see yourself with him 10 years down the road.
Reply:he is not confident in himself. Please dont get married to this person. You need more time and you need one on one interaction. Not online. I think that you should try to move the relationship to a more sedate pace.
Reply:he crazy no one should rush in to things like that just tell him to wait for a will and if he realy likes you he will
Reply:Honey, isn't that sending off big warning bells in your head? Someone proposing marraige after 2 weeks? Wake up! Something is seriously wrong with that dude. Proceed with extreme caution.
Reply:i am not sure why he's rushing you but one thing for sure, he has a hidden agenda on you. ask him to slow down coz you need time to realize if you really love each other. remember, LOVE is far different from LUST.
Reply:I don't know if you should say yes because it is really soon and even if you feel like you really like him you met him over the internet thats kinda dangerous and you never know exactly what hes like.