Is this a mindgame we're both playing?...Help!?

I have a friend who I have not spoken to in over 11 months now due to her lack of interest as a friend %26amp; questioning me on something she felt she did have to apologize for. I vowed unless she made the first move, I would not talk to her. But out of now where subtly apologized sending me a gift via online, a flower. She had no message with it. I resent her the same gift saying "Thanks for the flowers." We both are college students; live in different states. I do want to get back to talking to her via aim, as thats how we communicate best. But every time I get on,***** I can't seem to send her a message, I'm just afraid history will repeat itself. She also knows I'm available, but won't do the first move. *I never told her I was mad, I just ignored her on aim %26amp; eventually she got the hint, she so sent the gift as an apology to "amend" the friendship, *it's my take thats the logic behind it. Any ideas on how I should be with her/if I should do it ?.

Is this a mindgame we're both playing?...Help!?
I think her personality is not geared toward initiating or even sustaining a connection. Her sending e-flowers without any message was the most effortless way to deal with her long neglect of you. It was an olive branch, but it leaves you thinking she's still not making much effort. And history is already sort of repeating itself.



Whenever I can't think of anything to say, I either wait until I do (and meanwhile do nothing), or start talking to them as though nothing had happened at all. And if it doesn't lead anywhere, I say, "well I tried".
Reply:Sounds like a vicious circle of whose gonna make the first move. It has always been my experience that the bigger(better) person always make the first move.

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