Guys....I need some insight please....?

I met someone online %26amp; fell in love with him. We get along great, he calls all the time, when we're together it's wonderful, he sends flowers, and he even proposed. We live far apart and don't get to see each other much. He says he's faithful, that he loves only me and wants a future with me, yet he lists himself as single on all his profiles. I've read some things he has posted on different sites and he makes it sound like he is unattached. He visits me yet doesn't invite me to visit him. I'm crazy about him but I don't want to be hurt again. What should I do?

Guys....I need some insight please....?
Go visit him. Show up unanounced. If he really loves you, he will happy to see you no matter what. If he isn't thrilled to see you, quit talking to him. For a while atleast.
Reply:go visit him and find out about him.
Reply:Sounds extremely suspicious. I'd end the relationship ASAP. I bet he's married, which is why he doesn't want you to visit him. You're probably one of many.
Reply:He is either married or still fishing for someone else while claiming allegiance to you. You need to confront him, but if he is telling you that he loves you and is still listing himself as single, he won't tell you the truth.



I also agree with the other poster, he is probably married so I would consider breaking it off.
Reply:hes to busy with your mom get a life and stop ******** your computer.
Reply:In the long run, you are better off if you forget him and move on. I'm sure you can find someone much closer and much more "into" you than that turkey.
Reply:WHY are you asking US?



Ask HIM...



I think the "first answerer" is right...

You're the "second" relationship.



Sorry.
Reply:Hey, you need to have a talk with him, and then you'll know for sure :-)
Reply:I agree...he's married..dump him
Reply:He is married!! Drop him!
Reply:It may be yours belongingness. May be for Fun. Forget about him.
Reply:I'm sorry honey, but there's red flags everywhere on this. I say drop him and look else where. Obviously he's not ready to handle being with one person, and it has nothing to do with you, so don't take it personally.
Reply:Sounds like you are really a nice girl, and some guys like to trick nice girls. My suggestion would be to wait and to spend at least three month with him...not online, but in person, that way you'll know a lot more about him and then you can decide.