I met this girl in college 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her and I still do, so i sent flowers on her birthday two years ago. , she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, said that they made her very happy ect. But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met. Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Couple day ago i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. .And she invited me to her b-day party which was yesterday, so I went and she was there with 3 other girls no boys, she was nice to me, then after the club, I was driving home and I text messaged her “saying text me when you get home please”. Then she responded an hour later saying that “I am home, thank you for being there, Gosh too bad we are different religions otherwise I would date u”. I didn’t ask her for a date or anything. Is she trying to tell me something? This was the only time we actually hung out, out of class and I had not seen her in a while. But we have always been keeping in touch over msn. What should i do? I sent the roses with a message saying: “I saw these roses and, even though they were beautiful, nothing can compare to the beauty i see in you”. (but i didnt have my name on them, i just put Someone you inspire on the from part of the message. Was sending the roses a mistake? Is she telling me to stay away from her by getting religion involved? I didn’t ask her if she would like to date me. She called me 2 times today at 2pm and 5:30pm, when she called me the first time she said thank you for the flowers and that they were so beautiful, and when she called the second time she said that she was going to her church ritual, and that was the reason she had her party last night and said that the flowers were really pretty, and asked how I was doing and said thank you again. What should I do? Could something happen between us? Whats your view on this
Ladies please?
i think she is serious about not dating you because of religion. be friends with her it cant hurt.
Reply:She is definitely interested but she is conflicted due to the religion. I think something could happen between the two of you but religion is going to get in the way unless you can both find a way to not let it be an issue........
Reply:awww poor guy.. nothings rong between you guys.. she just cant date you because your muslim. maybe in her culture she can only go out with people that are her culture. she said she would date you if you werent muslim. but i dont really think religion matters unless god has written it in the bible. then i wouldnt want to break the rules, because it probably wouldnt last anyway. but you can maybe ask her out on a little date nothing more.. just tell her you want to spend some more time with her.. not go out. tell her how you feel or just ask her.
but i really think its just the religion thing.
hope i helped sweetie! i wish you lots of luck!!
merry early christmas xxxx
rain roots
Monday, January 30, 2012
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