I know she had her reservations,and she explained to me that she didnt know if I could even be the guy that she wanted even if I changed.But then followed by sayin she didnt know that I couldnt either.
I waited a week or so and sent her flowers,which really didnt seem to move her at all.And when I sent her a message to see how she was doing. She explained the flowers where nice...unnecessary but nice thank you %26amp; that she never thought I was a bad guy,but ur not the guy I want for me...that's all. she hoped my weekend was good %26amp; to message her online sometime and we could chat.I mean if I do still care for her is their anything I can say or do to win her back here.Or will the time apart make this hard edge worse instead of better.I mean I havent called her either 2 give her the space she asked 4.
Is it really over?
uhuh.
Reply:sounds like it's over. the way she responded to your message makes it sound like she's happy and at peace with her decision. the "message me online sometime and we can chat" definitely closes a door. it's sort of a "keep in touch." i don't think there's much you can do. and anyway, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
Reply:i say you need to move on and look for someone else bc she is done with you and she is obviously not worth crying over or worrying about. You should show her your time with is up too. You never chase the other person......Tell her that you love her and When she gets her act together you may be willing to talk and you may not bc you are intending to move on
Reply:Well, just being brutally honest here, in my opinion if she wanted to get back with you, she wouldn't have to because she wouldn't have broken up with you in the first place. Maybe she does just want her space. You should just leave her alone. You never know, as some say time apart makes the heart grow fonder. Good luck :)
Reply:try giving her all the space you need, later on when you least expect it, you'll be hearing from her, just give it time. and don't bug her
Reply:Keep giving her her space but still try to do little things to let her know how much ou care without smothering her. Give her some time.
Reply:It's really over, sorry.
Reply:If you love someone, let em go, if they come back, then it was meant to be.
Reply:Not until the fat lady sings.
Reply:yeah
Reply:its over man
Reply:Wow bro my heart goes out to you, seriously that's rough. Especially when it comes to giving advice. Worst part is I don't really know how much you really care for her so here goes it.
I figure you really do LOVE her, so this is indeed tough. I believe it is over for her at least for now. I believe that whatever seperated you two was really bad and that she has a lot of trust issues with you, bro. Not knowing the situation doesn't help either, that said I think she's just trying to forget right now, as far as what had happened and I think she's trying to decide RIGHT now weather she really wants to be WITH you.
Like I said before I really don't know all the details.
BUT if you are desiring a plain and simple way to put this without the fluff.
It's over
for now....
But DON"T give up, CHANGE for real and don't be a stocker either okay. IF you care give a little space, but do various things to get her back in your arms again. If you say you can change then bro only you know you can so do it. Man up. You got what it takes, now do it.
Change it up by letters, gifts, helping her friends or family if THEY ASK. Be in her like but NOT ON top of everything she has. In otherwards feel her out, if next week after sending a letter with a progress reports seems to bring success step it up. If not Wait a few days and try something else.
Just keep the faith.
Good Luck, Be Safe and most importantly Have Fun!
rain roots
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