Friday, January 27, 2012

Should I call it quits with him??

We met online 6 months ago, but didn't actually meet offline until one month ago. Before we met he would email or cal me EVERYDAY. Before the actual meeting he actually sent me flowers!



After our meeting everything seemed great. He still called me quite a bit for a few days afterwards, told me I was "hot", etc, etc. Now suddenly he only calls me to return my call, and just doesn't seem interested. He told me that he is depressed about his job, ect, ect; but I find it ironic that his depression set in right after we met - maybe I am the one depressing him, you know?



Anyhow, he just doesn't seem like the same person. I want to be supportive of him if he really is depresssed, but I think what it really boils down to is that he has lost interest. what do you guys think?

Should I call it quits with him??
You've been talking to him for 6 months. Can't you just be up front with him and ask him to be honest with you and let you know if he is still interested or not? Tell him that you're getting a different vibe and you don't want to keep pursuing the relationship if he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him. If it's truly depression, then urge him to get some help.
Reply:If i were you i would just not call him anymore .. if he calls you then you will know that there is still intrest . if he doesn't then find another online love..
Reply:Wow...I'm in the same situation as you...he probably is VERY interested but if he is really depressed and all...it can lead him into isolation from others. He can avoid you, dont call you, and when you try to call he wont pick up. You try everything, so itll seem like he has lost interest in you. But dont worry, if he sent you flowers, seems like he really like you. Best wishes!
Reply:I think online dating is stupid! Why can't you meet someone in person in your area?

And if he's being a jerk, he's not worth your time anyway!


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