Should i leave him for his dark past? or should i still take the risk n be with him? how do i trust him he won

here's the thing. I love this guy for about a year n a half now. Met him online last feb he lives in nigeria n im in india...he has been here twice with his folks and i met him too. He has been nothin but the nicest guy to me. He sends me flowers all the way sitting there.



but i found out he has had a very grim n dark past which he hid from me. Met this "friend" he had online n i had all his profiles deleted from his id n added to mine. n she took me for him n so i found out everythin. Turns out 6 years back he went out wid this girl for nearly 4 years n then cheated on her for another girl. The girl he did tell about who actually dumped him. Which served him right for leavin his 1st gf for this other girl after 4 yrs.

Then last year i caught an email in his inbox which was a very intimate loveletter to some girl. to which he told me yes he did get into it but they both knew it wasnt right n wanted 2 phase it out. So i forgave him last time too.

Iv met his family not his mom yet

Should i leave him for his dark past? or should i still take the risk n be with him? how do i trust him he won
You have all the answers and the reasons for them in your narration itself.



Just dump him. You will find several men in this whole world with whom you need not compromise on anything.
Reply:oh well.. if he is not honest with you and hides things like that about his past he is not trustable.. but if he admits all these and apologised for not telling you then give him one last chance... if he does something like that again then dumb him..
Reply:you are not very trustworthy either!if youd stay out of his mail you wouldnt be stressing out now.sounds like you both deserve eachother..do the world a favor????%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;dont have kids.
Reply:sorry this is so blunt.....DUMP HIM. You have answered your own questions and i dont think you trust him... you would like to, but you dont sound like you do. leopard and spots.
Reply:What's the problem? He's in Nigeria and you are in India. He cheats and you steal and violate trust boundaries. Sounds like true romance.
Reply:Sounds like niether of you can be trusted! So maybe you deserve each other...just don't breed