Should I just go see him & take a chance?

I was heavily involved with a guy I met online. We talked EVERY DAY by phone, text, email, online, just like a relationship. We argued, showed love, shared alot personally, but never met in person. We planned to meet soon but things got bad. We started arguing alot. It got so bad that we hurled horrible words %26amp; said things to hurt each purposely. Then lost his job %26amp; 3 yr old son. I supported him, sent money, stayed on the phone while he cried, I was there for him. Xmas came I spent a hundreds on gifts for him, his son (before his son died) %26amp; sent his Mom flowers. I didnt get so much as a CARD on Xmas OR my birthday. I got so hurt %26amp; angry, I said foul things to hurt him %26amp; used his son's death as a weapon to hurt him. Then things got REAL nasty. That was in January. I try calling him recently but all his phones are off. I thought about just finally taking a trip to his town to see him but I wonder if that's a smart thing to do bcz he may still me mad at me %26amp; hate me.



Should I just go?

Should I just go see him %26amp; take a chance?
Oh My Lord are you CRAZY???????? How could you even consider going to see him or communicate with him??? If you couldn't get along over the phone, etc.. what makes you think you could get along in a "real" relationship? Quit dreaming and move on in your life with a real person. Besides, you using his son's death against him in an argument is the lowest of lows and I would never forgive you for that and I'm sure he hasn't either. If he saw/spoke to you again, he would probably spit in your face and I wouldn't blame him.
Reply:you should go see him



have you spoken since january?
Reply:Sounds to me like it was just a one way thing. Did you see his son, pictures etc. It is very easy to lie on line and on the phone, what if he only needed money and just took you for a ride. How can you fall in love with someone then suddenly start fighting and then bang it's over.

I met my husband on line and he never asked me for anything what so ever. If he really did love you, he would of wanted to see you when his son supposedly died don't you think.

Anyways, don't waist anymore time or energy on him, just let it go, obviously he's moved on.

Good luck
Reply:Hang on a bloody minute....you have never met this guy, please think rationally! He has accepted money and gifts from you and never sent you any. He is clearly taking you for a ride, he's clearly just using you. Please try to see your situation from an outsiders point of view.

I know its hard because you think your in love, but your not. Love is when you know someone and have at least met them. No matter how many photos he's sent you for all you know he's some 50 stone wierdo. Please think rationally about this.

Dont go see him. Please. Get out more and make real friends, friends you can actually meet in person....
Reply:Let it go.
Reply:Forget him. u were there for him and sent him money (I wouldn't) so he is not appreciative of u. He used u. move on.

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