A question to the ladies out there?

i met this girl in collage 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her, so i sent flowers on her birthday. , but i dint have my name on them she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met, Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Yesterday i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday which is on the 22nd of December, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. Then she asked me if i was really going to send her roses for her birthday?. Is she trying to tell me something? We never really hung out out of class and i have not seen her in a while. What should i do?

She is the one always saying hi over msn, i dont even msn her!

A question to the ladies out there?
maybe she like you all along but wasn't really sure. As a chick, i don't like to lead guys on (especially sweet ones like u) so i don't really pursue something till i'm sure...though sometimes it's too late.

But yeah, i think she likes u, and if u still like her, then go to her party and have fun!
Reply:I think you should go out and find a lovely card with pink roses on it and send it to her. I think she's a user. Don't get them and see how she acts towards you. If she's still around then you 'll know. Good luck.
Reply:She's putting way too much emphasis on getting roses. She should be more interested in seeing you, not getting roses. If she has a problem with you being a Muslim, %26amp; things stopped on her part because of it, why then is she so curious as to whether or not she's getting roses? Truthfully, she's a player, so when you see her again, go empty handed. If she treats you cool, then you move on to someone who accepts you for who %26amp; what you are.
Reply:i guess but i think that's discrimination...she stopped seeing you after learning that you were a muslim, ummm....i don't really know, she sounds like materialistic to me...I mean if she liked you she would not tell you to send her flowers, but she's going to wait for you to send them to her...r u getting my point??
Reply:omg, yes!!

totally!

if i were her and had said that and the guy i liked said he would send roses, i would get really happy and i wouldn't be able to wait until my b-day!

you should TOTALLY give her the flowers!!
Reply:ya she fall for u more than she does now i realy think she lyks u go 4 it and be kool bout it
Reply:wait wait wait...

she cant like you because your muslim...i dont get that
Reply:You should give her the flowers, I mean you dont have anything to lose by giving them to her eccept money. Who knows maybe she just wants you as a friend or a friend with benefits but your just going to have feel the situation out and maybe eve ask her how she feels about you.
Reply:Well, either that or she just really wants flowers. Maybe she keeps asking you for roses because she wants to show them off to her friends, especially if you're cute.
Reply:Go for it dude. Send the roses, and go to the party. Whats the worst that can happen if you dont see her that much anyway? If something does go wrong, its not like your losing a close friend.



And the best thing that happens is that you get with her. And if she keeps im'ong you, then yeah i think shes into you.



GO for it
Reply:If she was into you she wouldn't be so pushy about the flowers. I think that all she wants is for you to buy her flowers! If she did care bout you, she really would just prefer you to see her not just for you to buy her flowers. She's bad news.
Reply:go 4 it she likes u
Reply:yeah dog fo show



ive been in a situation similar to this and in the end i found out that she did like me
Reply:Aww, how cute! She likes you. If you still like her, go with it. Good luck with everything!
Reply:it sounds like she just wants the damn roses...since she's focusing on them so much. she already said that since you are Muslim, she didn't like you. she's stupid for that, but i wouldn't send her the flowers.
Reply:It sounds like one of two things. Either she really likes you or just likes flirting with you...I would find the second option a little misleading/ manipulative because of her persistance.



I would ask her if she has had a change of heart regarding your being Muslim- I would imagine that it is important to you to be accepted for who you are and KNOW that you are not starting to open up to a person who either wants to change you or for you to forsake your Muslim beliefs.



Personally, I'd be very put off if a person said they liked me and had to stop upon finding out my religion...it is mean and immature.



As I said at first, it is either a genuine change of heart or a misplaced flirtation. Talk to her first, buy the roses later.

I hope she had a change of heart and cares for you, as a friend and a Muslim.



Good luck.

Kind thoughts.
Reply:She is definitely flirting. She is pretty much flat out asking you to give her roses. This is all great, but the part about her not liking you for a while because you are muslim is bad. People shouldn't be stereotyped, or judged by their beliefs. If you truly have feelings for her, than disregard her ignorance. If I were in your shoes I wouldn't want to have a relationship with someone who is prejudice.





Hope I helped.
Reply:It seems slightly strange to me that you don't seem to care that she stopped liking you because you're Muslim. Either she's prejudiced in a bad way, or her family is very conservative and racist. Either way, is she the type of girl you want to be with? It sounds like she's someone who will make a relationship hard on you because of your religion, and yet she still seems to accept your advances, and what's more, lead you on. However, I really think that you need to consider her racism before you go ahead with this.

Roses are expensive, hon. Don't waste them, especially when you're a college student on a budget.

Best of luck.
Reply:yesterday what did you do?
Reply:take the flowers with you to her party! show up with them instead of sending them, that will put a smile on her face for sure! she seems to like you.
Reply:What can it hurt to go for it? Most likely she wouldn't be talking to you like that if she didn't like you in that way. But I'm not very good with people so maybe you shouldn't listen to me.







I don't see why she couldn't go further because you are Muslim. I've been with my muslim boyfriend for 2 years.
Reply:I think you should start something with her, but take it slow. Send her the roses, as she seems like the romantic type. Give her a card, too. If things go well, ask her out, but make it casual. Work your way up to dinner at a fancy restaurant. Also get her a nice present for her birthday. Maybe some jewelry or something like that. Don't get clothes as you don't know her size. If you get something too big, it will be offending. To small, and she might think you expect her to be skinnier. Good luck!! :D
Reply:You should give them to her. You like her, and she might like you. I don't get why you being a muslim is such a big deal . I'm dating a Buddist, so I don't see the big thing about why anyone would really care about your religion. Next time you see her, try to talk more, hang out more, do anything you would want to do. Ask her what she likes/ dislikes. Then baised on the info, you can ask her to a date after you are more comfortable that she likes you. She obviously shows some interest from what you said. Also she did say she liked you before she found out you were Muslim, so she still might want to like you. If you think about it, there is a great possiblity that she likes you too. ^.^ Good luck!