A question to the ladies out there?

i met this girl in collage 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her, so i sent flowers on her birthday. , but i dint have my name on them she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met, Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Yesterday i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday which is on the 22nd of December, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. Then she asked me if i was really going to send her roses for her birthday?. Is she trying to tell me something? We never really hung out out of class and i have not seen her in a while. What should i do?

She is the one always saying hi over msn, i dont even msn her!

A question to the ladies out there?
Well, you have to decide. If you send her flowers, then you're maintaining a relationship of some sort, and you need to decide if it's something that you, as a Muslim, can properly do. I don't think it's fair for you to send flowers (which is a very romantic, boyfriend type of thing to do) and then ignore her IMs. Either say no, you're not, and don't, or say yes, do so, and pursue a relationship, and do so within the strictures of your religion with her knowledge and understanding.



But don't let her think that it's going to be like dating just any other guy. I am not a Muslimah, but I do know that there are some pretty stringent guidelines on male-female interaction, and it would be sad to have things get snagged on that when with proper discussion and openness they wouldn't have to be.
Reply:i think you just try to get to kno her more...and also hang out...and send those roses..UR SELF..so she knos that you have feeling for her...
Reply:Sounds like she is more interested in flowers than you
Reply:first of all, do u know whether she likes u or not? or maybe she's just playing with ur feelings.. why she stopped liking u when she learned that u r a Muslim? is definately shows something there, but i myself is not sure. u can take her out for dinner to celebrate her birthday. u can see where its going from there. good luck!
Reply:I don't know. You need to ask her if she likes you or not. Maybe she's getting over the fact you're a Muslim? Girls change their minds a lot. Just be straightforward and ask her how she feels. I think she likes you.
Reply:Maybe a short, romantic poem?

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