I met this girl in college 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her and I still do, so i sent flowers on her birthday two years ago. , she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, said that they made her very happy ect. But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met. Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Couple day ago i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. .And she invited me to her b-day party which was yesterday, so I went and she was there with 3 other girls no boys, she was nice to me, then after the club, I was driving home and I text messaged her “saying text me when you get home please”. Then she responded an hour later saying that “I am home, thank you for being there, Gosh too bad we are different religions otherwise I would date u”. I didn’t ask her for a date or anything. Is she trying to tell me something? This was the only time we actually hung out, out of class and I had not seen her in a while. But we have always been keeping in touch over msn. What should i do? I sent the roses with a message saying: “I saw these roses and, even though they were beautiful, nothing can compare to the beauty i see in you”. (but i didnt have my name on them, i just put Someone you inspire on the from part of the message. Was sending the roses a mistake? Is she telling me to stay away from her by getting religion involved? I didn’t ask her if she would like to date me. She called me 2 times today at 2pm and 5:30pm, when she called me the first time she said thank you for the flowers and that they were so beautiful, and when she called the second time she said that she was going to her church ritual, and that was the reason she had her party last night and said that the flowers were really pretty, and asked how I was doing and said thank you again. What should I do? Could something happen between us? Whats your view on this
Ladies view?
Im sorry if this is going to sound really harsh, but the fact that she keeps getting into religion is a tough thing. If she cant get of that simple thing, then what else is to come. I was raised in a house that observed both Catholicism and Judaism, and both I think it was better like that. I know that religion is important to some people, and apparently it is to her, so insulting that wouldn't be a good idea. If you are serious about dating her and want to give it a shot, then the best way (in my opinion) would be to talk to her. If you dont have the courage to say it in person, the write her. Maybe you can get a chance to see where shes coming from and why shes making a big deal out of it. Good luck, and I really hope this helped, and sorry if it was a little confusing!
Reply:I think that though you see the beauty in her, she's being very shallow for the different religions excuse. " Gee, I would date you but our religions are different?" Is it 1950? Have you asked why she feels this way? I don't think that theres a chance unless she can see that religion isn't an issue. Would you ask her to convert if you were to date? I mean it doean't seem to bother you. Am I right? And is she hinting that she wants you to rethink your beliefs? I would be very wary of her.
Monday, January 30, 2012
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