Is this too much romance?

First of all, I know this girl right, but we dont hang out and stuff, but we have talked before, I know where she lives, I've been to her house, we have chit-chatted on IM, its just that we are not that close.



I plan to send her flowers via couriers and with a note that says 'i have something to show you online' and thanks to yahoo! members, it is certified as romantic.



I already wrote to her a poem like a week ago which she says she liked it, and also certified by my other female friends as 'awww, that's so sweet'.



When I say 'I have something to show you online', I actually wrote her a 500 word story about how I feel about her, some part of me says, "dude, this is too much romance. Go head bang with System of a Down music'.



I don't want to overdo romance, can u guys comment....



Here is a link of the short story (just a draft website): http://sue.110mb.com/



after the story, I plan to ask her out.



PS: English is not my mother tounge, so please excuse moi anglais

Is this too much romance?
not really no
Reply:I only read your starting line and I have to say NO! There is never enough romance, just the timing has to be right. Don't stop just becasue others think it's too much, it's up to the both of you.
Reply:2 points :)
Reply:uh, I'm sorry to burst your buble, but it is NOT a good idea. Its not romance either. You are saying you are not that close to this girl, and you are going to write her a 500 WORD ESSAY about how you feel about her, and THEN you are going to ask her out?????!!!!!



Buddy, you are going to CREEP the **** out of her and there is no way, no way she is going to go out with you after that.



You Need to ASK HER OUT!! plain and simple. What more will she need to know? Then, after you have been going ou for a while, THEN show her this 500 word essay about how you feel, like after about 6 months, miminum!!



500 words?? About someone you barely know??

What are you kids thinking these days?? Its just beyond me.

Go out. Have fun, have sex. Then worry about getting overly serious





OK, just for kicks, i read your note. First, it is not a romantic note. It is a factual note, expressing doubt. If you really want to go ahead with this you need to take out the hopelesslessness garbage out. Here I rewrote the ending for you:





"

But,



What If,



Yes, what if, .



What if, if I put extra effort and energy to try to get to know Sue personally? Find out what her favorite foods are, find out whether she daydreams or not, and how she spends her day. And from that extra effort, something magical and delightful happens. That extra effort would probably be the best effort in my life.



I know what I have to do now.""





Do you see how i changed it? What the heck is the point of what If you don;t do anything..why would she need to know that if you don't do anything..everyones lives will be just great????? That last paragraph of your romantic note HAS to be taken out. Also, anything relating to her height, the fact she has a cat, the fact that you don't know her personally...Basically most of your note has to be taken out because when she reads it..she is going to say..OH yeah..I don't really know him...or SHE WILL GET OFFENDED WHEN SHE READS THAT SHE IS FEIST!! GUARANTEED





I still think your best best is just to ask this girl out.You can bring her flowers in person when you are going out on a date!!





I repeat, this sending flowers and writing odd notes to a girl is NOT romantic!!!
Reply:Hey man, girls love a romantic guy so there's never such thing as too much romance. It would be hard to pass that story up. Go for it!
Reply:Hey bro first of all, just ask her out man, you will scare her away with a 500 word essay of how i feel about you thing. Ask her out, then you will know for sure if she's into you, if she says yeah then lay the romance on evenly.



Andre'
Reply:I'd wait on the story until you have gone out a couple times.
Reply:It's hit or miss. She might be floored that someone is so interested in her, especially if she feels the same way (cross your fingers). However, a lot of women don't know how to handle the attention... and she'll get freaked and that will be that.



Hard to say without knowing her or how she feels about you. I say seize the day, man. If that's how you wanna roll then go for it!



Don't listen to the haters. Almost everyone is jaded.
Reply:no such thing as too much romance, go for it dude, you'll be glad you did!
Reply:awww ur sweet and ur not doin to much. i wish sumbody wuld do dat 4 me.



Gud luck i hope you get her
Reply:I don't know Sue, but I know that peom was beautiful. I hope she says yes! If not that girl just doesn't deserve you. Trust me baby theres no such thing as "Too much romance" I wish there were more men out there like you so more girls could have that happy ending we dream about.
Reply:There can never be to much romance.
Reply:ok well i think the flowers are sweet but i would either 86 the 500 word story or cut it down 2 a small love note or something. Dont over do it and ull win her heart!
Reply:here's a tip . save the romance for someone you are in a relationship with . you could push her away coming on too strongb/c she may not be the same place emotionally even though she is willing to date. This happened to me once. This guy got infatuated and i liked him but he pressured me too much with love and i was trying to take it slow- i had to break up with him. He sacred me off a little. I ouwld stop the romance and just ask her on a date and start dating. after its going well then be romantic. Save ALL THE ROMANCE FOR A REAL LOVE/ Its sad to waste all of you first emotional experiences on someone who isn't in a relationship with you. You lose sincerity with each romantic experience as you go from person to person because it becomes ritual instead of emotional. good luck! If she doesn't say yes- move on other fish in the sea.
Reply:not there never to much romance...%26lt;333
Reply:clearly french is not your native tongue or you wouldn't have said,"please excuse me english"
Reply:i think it's a bit too much cut it down , she'll think you are too desperate so just do the simple things flowers etc, save the rest for later.