She left me lastnight when I got online and a girl IMed me saying "she missed me". I told wife she that she was a girl from Egypt and just a friend...she called me a sex pervert.
She took all her stuff and left. help!!! What do I do? Help!! I am not a pervert..I just have chat friends..she dont understand me.
My wife left me last night because she says im a pervert??
You should have let her play with you.
Reply:I don't blame her, I would do the same. I don't think that I would necessarily accuse you of being a pervert, but I would definitely say that you were having an affair. An emotional affair that is. Even if you are not in a physical relationship with this woman, you obviously have an emotional connection that is more than friendship based, if she is telling you she misses you when you have never met. I think the first step towards healing your relationship with your wife would be to quit lying to yourself. Be honest, not only with yourself, but with your wife. Tell her why you had to go outside of your marriage to receive emotional support and love. Tell her you want to do whatever it takes to make things better, and definitely consider marriage counseling. This is a big deal, not something that will be forgotten with flowers and a poem.
Reply:having chat friends is one thing there is nothing wrong with that but for a married man to masterbate with one is way out of line
Reply:toooo bad for her, if she isn't really as kinky and freaky as you want her too bad for her. If she wanted you to stop chatting online and doing those stuff, she should be the one making you feel wanted and sexy enough for you to play with yourself in front of her, i love that in a guy, get kinky and really freaky. For her to leave because of that , she ain''t all there, women love when their man get freaky but with her no other, that is why as a women i must make my man crazy with all kinds of kinky ways and teasing.
Reply:Make her understood that she is your wife %26amp; that girl is just a friend. if she really loves you she must come back to you if not that means she wasn't for u %26amp; her go to find her own way.
Reply:Well you see, i dont think its a problem... but she does... in which case shes gone.. find someone who is more sexually open, try adult dating sites, and be specific what you are looking for. Some women are into all kinds of wierdness, some are just meant to be single.
Reply:you are i must agree.
Reply:There is nothing perverted about chatting with girls online. The onl perverted thing you did was maturbating while chatting with that girl and so... yes you are a pervert and yes, you deserve what your wife did to you. How would you feel if you caught her musturbating while chatting with a man in the IM Box?
Reply:She should have left you, your cheating
Reply:chat friends are okay, sex friends are not, and you ARE a pervert... i hope you understand this is considered Cheating
Reply:You are a pervert. She did the right thing. Now you can go on line and masturbate as much as you can.
Reply:My husband and I sometimes masturbate with each other but if he did so with anyone else, all hell would break loose.
Reply:Tell her that you need help. Tell her that you will get help. Anything to get her back. And do it!
Reply:If you are masturbating while chatting with these girls then it's more than just friends. Maybe you should've spent more time with your wife and less time chatting. I don't know if you can get her back, but what I can say is that I don't blame her for leaving.
Reply:Yeah, a real pervert *rolls eyes* funny how most of the internet, which make a ton of money by the way, are porn sites. If you are a pervert than there a millions of them, and not just men either. All you can do is explain yourself to her as best as you can. Then hope that she understands. After that it is all up to her.
Reply:get rid of your computer and beg for forgivness and get some therapy!!!! maybe eventually she'll forgive you.
Reply:Help is right, and you need it! I have lots of chat friends, just as my husband does, BUT we have never masturbated with them..If you can't control your urges any better then that, then you need lots of HELP! I have chat friends that tell me they miss me, or vice versa, but that is normally only when we haven't spoken in a while..Get the help that you need and show her that you are getting that help, maybe then you will stand somewhat of a chance of getting her back..
Reply:No its not a matter of her needing to understand u, its a matter of you growing up and living up to the marriage vows to your wife.. U are to forsake all others.. for her.... My husband and I have a deal we dont put ourselves..in ANY situation that can be misconstrude as cheating in any way shape or form.. its time that u grow up and stop relying on other women to give u ego gradification.. u want ur wife back, get rid of your computer since obviously ur not man enough to be able to handle being faithful to your wife over the computer.. and u are cheating on her, ur emotionally cheating on her by using these other women for self gradification whether its sexually, or just to give u self ego gradification by flirting .... GROW UP BE A REAL MAN.. ur wife did the right thing by leaving u, u were disrespecting her, and cheating on her.. so u got what u deserved, u want her back? time to start showing her that u can be a faithful man to her at all costs and put her first in all area's of ur life..
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