Ladies, would this be an amazing first date?

A guy you have been chatting with online for 2.5 months drives an hour to your college dorm to pick you up. Than he drives you to your favorite park an hour away, where you guys walk/talk for a few hours. Than if your hungry he gets you something to eat. Than he drives you back to the dorms, and you 2 walk around that campus for an hour or two. He than walks to his car, pulls out flowers, adds water to the vase, cuts the stems off the flowers, and puts them into the vase, than walks you to your dorm room and hands you the vase of flowers. He than kisses your hand, and says "goodbye!"

Ladies, would this be an amazing first date?
Honestly? The girl would be an idiot to agree to this.



I'm sure you're a great guy - but she has absolutely no way of knowing for sure if you're a nice guy or a charming psychopath. And you want her to get into a car with a guy she's never met in person (putting herself under his physical control), and have him drive her who knows where?



A park *sounds* romantic... but a public park easily becomes a deserted wooded area where no one can hear her scream or prevent you from raping her.



This would be a wonderful date IF she already knew you, IF you had been dating awhile, IF she could verify you are really as normal and sane as you claim to be. There's a big difference between written persona and real-world persona.



You're probably a great guy. And she's probably naive enough to trust you. And it would probably be a wonderfully romantic date.

But if I was her friend, I would strongly advise against it, especially on the first few dates. It puts her in an unsafe situation, and it's hard for a girl to relax when she has the slightest concern about her safety.



The food, flowers, hand-kissing are all great. But women blossom the most (romantically and sexually) when they feel safe. You may be eager to play the strong knight protecting her from all attackers - but who will protect her from you? Give her a situation where she is safe and in control of what happens next.
Reply:Yes It would be amazing.



But I'd question the sanity of anyone meeting someone from the net that way.



Public place only. Own transportation!
Reply:It sounds very sweet :)

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