Please help! I'm not from his caste.?

How do you know if a guy really likes you?

I'm seeing this guy 4.. 3 wks now. He calls me, plays pool online almost everynight and says really nice things about me all the time. We have sex and go out. I need to know if I'm too spolied in realationships. In the past, I have had men I was dating to get out of bed at 2am 4 am and get me medicine for stomach cramps, bring/send me flowers all the time for reasons and no reasons at all. I have deal with chronic pain and am use to massages 2 times a day. If I need an item or something that I couldn't afford. I'm use to guys that I have dated getting or helping me get it. This guy that I'm seeing now doesn't do any of that. I feel that he doesn't really like me. Maybe just uses me for sex and company. I feel this way b/c he doesn't offer to bring me meds or give massages send me flowers all the time.He's Indian and I'm american. How do I know? Am I wrong to expect such kind and out of the way gestures from a man to feel loved and wanted?

Please help! I'm not from his caste.?
I don't think it should be all about receiving. What are you doing for him? If he was doing all of those things for you, but you didn't give back, it would seem like you're a little "spoiled" in the relationship. Maybe he doesn't expect to do these things. You've only known him for 3 weeks, could it be that serious? As time goes on and you get closer to him, I think he will treat the relationship seriously and do some of the things he mentioned. I'm sure he would also like it if you did do things for him as well. Good luck with you relationship. =]
Reply:You both are using eachother for sex.

Some guys are attentive and like to take care of you and others are not attentive. It's part of their upbringing...some are gentlemen and some are not.
Reply:yes, he's using you for sex. Next time wait awhile before you have sex, see if he likes you first.
Reply:Dump him he's not worth your time. It is just human kindness to get someone their medicine and massage, he is obviously not worthy of you. The flowers might be asking too much, some guys are into that and some are not.
Reply:Have you asked him to give you massages or bring you meds? Some guys are clueless, and they can't read your mind. Just because he hasn't offered to do it, doesn't mean he isn't willing.



By the way, you need to do some stuff for him too, like making sure you're stocked up on meds so he doesn't have to go get meds. Give him massages and have little massage parties. If you want flowers, give him a gift. Love is a two-way street, you need to do your part.