I met this girl in college 2 years ago, At that time i had a big crush on her and I still do, so i sent flowers on her birthday two years ago. , she called me and thanked me for the flowers at that time, said that they made her very happy ect. But nothing serious happened between us, we took a few courses together after we met. Recently she told me that she thinks i am cute, and that she had a crush on me the first day of class but she had to stop after learning that i was a Muslim. Couple day ago i was online and she asked me when my birthday was, i told her that it passed, and she asked me if i was going to send her flowers for her birthday, I was like how about red roses this time, and she told me that she likes Pink roses. .And she invited me to her b-day party which was yesterday, so I went and she was there with 3 other girls no boys, she was nice to me, then after the club, I was driving home and I text messaged her “saying text me when you get home please”. Then she responded an hour later saying that “I am home, thank you for being there, Gosh too bad we are different religions otherwise I would date u”. I didn’t ask her for a date or anything. Is she trying to tell me something? This was the only time we actually hung out, out of class and I had not seen her in a while. But we have always been keeping in touch over msn. What should i do? I sent the roses with a message saying: “I saw these roses and, even though they were beautiful, nothing can compare to the beauty i see in you”. (but i didnt have my name on them, i just put Someone you inspire on the from part of the message. Was sending the roses a mistake? Is she telling me to stay away from her by getting religion involved? I didn’t ask her if she would like to date me. She called me 2 times today at 2pm and 5:30pm, when she called me the first time she said thank you for the flowers and that they were so beautiful, and when she called the second time she said that she was going to her church ritual, and that was the reason she had her party last night and said that the flowers were really pretty, and asked how I was doing and said thank you again. What should I do? Could something happen between us? Whats your view on this
Ladies view- i know its long but i need some helpful people?
she obv likes you...but maybe she wants you to make the first move...she might want you to say that religion's not gonna be a problem or sth along those lines (don't you dare make that mistake). you need to decide. if you go along with this relationship, then you're gonna have to decide what you're gonna do abt religion (and you can't decide later coz it's just gonna get more and more difficult). if your religion is more dear to you, then you gotta let her know. may Allah guide you.
Reply:What a situation! I sense that she is attracted to you and interested...however, it sounds like her religious beliefs must be quite strong and she (as well as her family) would never approve.
Be your charming self...even be her friend...but I don't know that anything serious could come of this. I'm not sure what religion she is, but my brother-in-law is hacidic jew and his wife had to convert to marry him...and they were not allowed to date "officially" until she was converted. Unless that is a direction you are interested in pursuing, I don't know that there is any other way.
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