Why shouldn't I be depressed?

Here's a quick run-down:

? I've been single for 6 1/2 years.

? This is my 7th consecutive V-Day alone.

? I can't afford anything to treat myself.

? Everyone in my office is getting flowers and balloons and gifts.

? I haven't been able to figure out any way to meet decent guys (none of the traditional options, church, online, bar, Starbucks, book store, etc., have ever worked for me).

? My friends have no one to set me up with and I really don't know many guys.

? I have a 3-month-old, which makes me automatic guy repellent.

So please tell me, having been a complete failure with my entire life, why should I be happy today? The only people who will say it's a corporate holiday are people who are mad because they have to buy something for their sweetheart. The people who say they love being single are probably thin, beautiful, and wealthy and don't have any big problems in life.

Why shouldn't I be depressed?
what pain killer do u use?



u answered my q... u said u use painkiller.. do u mean anti-depression? I usually over-sleep to get over my loneliness, if there's a pill i'll get it.
Reply:You have the right to be sad, not depressed, cheer up there a millions of women out there that have the same life as you, just think of V day as a day where companies like flower shops, balloon companies, and restaurants get to make a lot of money, just because a stupid cupid came along and stabbed someone in the butt.
Reply:You have a beautiful baby, health, a job, a home, life...enjoy it and don't dwell on the negative...your glass should always be 1/2 full not 1/2 empty. Tonight when you get home put some paint on your baby's hand a press it to a heart shaped piece of paper...then you can take it to work tomorrow and always remember your baby's first V-Day...you can keep that forever...flowers will be dead in a few days.
Reply:well.....you have a 3mo old - so you're not SEXless....or UNdo-able.....

Hmmm - why would you allow yourself to get pregnant? Is it possible you're getting a reputation "with those friends who claim they have NObody to set you up with" as that girl who got pregnant without being married.

I know accidents happen - but my parents would disown me if I had a baby without a husband!

Where's baby daddy? How'd he get away?

There was obviously something repellant about you before the baby - so maybe if you find a real friend who can be honest with you....you can find out why men have been repelled for 6 years!



ARE YOU A BIG DOWNER????? sounds to me like that's a possibility?



BUT on the other hand....being single %26amp; independent is amazing - nobody to answer to - nobody to nag - nobody to tell you how to raise your baby! Feel happy that you have what you DO have and fall madly in love with that baby %26amp; make baby the love of your life....
Reply:I KNEW ND UNDERSTAND ALL.ISTHE GUY YOUR EX HUBBY NOY WILLING TO COME.CANNOT BE GIVEN DIVORCE.PUT A CASE AGAINST.ANY RELATIONS WITH YOU ,WHERE? IFFRIENDS ARE KEEN FOR YOUR MARRIAGE.

YOU WILL HAVE TO WAIT AS SON IS 3 MONTHS.

READ YOUR GOD'S DIVINE PAGES

WISH YOU ALL THE BEST TO COME TO YU!
Reply:It's all in your attitude. I'm pregnant and single this Valentines Day, it's a little sad...but I'm not depressed. I'm sure that you have family and friends that love you...and of course your beloved little one. Enjoy their company, a man will come soon enough, don't worry!
Reply:You need to stop looking at what you don't have, and see what you do have. Decide to be a happy single. Don't let it get you down, it's 1 stupid day out of the year.
Reply:you just haven't met that someone yet....kids are not a repellant....my guy met me when i had 2 kids....5 and 2 and he raised them and 4 others as his own...we've been married for 34 years....you will find your happiness...in time....i'd give you a Valentine hug...if i could...that baby has to be the best valentine ever....he's your Valentine...you may not know that now but just wait...i have 6 of the most terrific kids on this planet...hang in there
Reply:You are probably a bright, kind, and wonderful person. I know a lot of divorced (or went thought a breakup) people who find happiness again .... I would just focus on yourself and your baby, and when you least expect it ... you will find happiness again.



Please count your blessings!! I am sure there are great things in store for you.