How can I show or express my love as a woman to another woman?

As a woman who lives in a country which bans the word and everything that it stands for, I don't exactly know what the word "lesbian" means. If as a married woman I find every possible joy in the man I live with, (which I think I do) then why do I find myself attracted so deeply to other women. Is this persistent feeling enough for me to be called a lesbian? How can I find a way to conquer my shyness and speak to this with another woman? There is a woman in our neighborhood who sells flowers. Whenever I go to her shop I find myself more attracted to her than all the flowers in her shop? I wish I could tell her how beautiful she looks to me. How can I start to be what I love to be? Perhaps an online friendship helps me to progress gradually and master my shy inability.

How can I show or express my love as a woman to another woman?
If she's accepting of different sexualities, it's best just to tell her how you feel. Talk to her about it if you trust her and I hope everything goes well for you. And no, I don't think it's strange at all to be attracted to other women. If it's a feeling that's present all the time, then you might be gay. But it's natural for humans to be sexually attracted to any kind of human. A hormone thing.
Reply:You just tell her like you'd tell a man.

But you're married and that would be considered cheating if you took it further.

Honestly, I think you're just curious cuz your country is so anti-lesbian.
Reply:The best way you know how. Good Luck!
Reply:Scissors.