Is he busy, uninterested or just want to be friends?

There is a guy whom i know for many years. He's 8 yrs older than me and now pursuing medicine in America while im still in Asia. Despite distance apart, we keep in touch very frequently.

He once asked me whether im interested in any specific guy. I said no. He said he doesn't have a girl in mind either...but he plans to wait till he complete his medical sch education. After asking this question, i realised that he is not as chatty with me as before.

He calls me once in a while despite not having specific reason for calling. On the other hand, i realised that he gives "hugs", superlatives, "flowers" via facebook to a girl. He give some other girls that too, but not to me though i asked him for it once. I'm his No.3 in his top friend list in facebook tho..

Recently he kinda refuse to talk to me during weekdays because he claims to be busy. Whenever i come online on msn, he will appear offline. And whenever i go offline, he will soon appear online. He looks for me during weekends tho.

Is he busy, uninterested or just want to be friends?
Why would you want to set yourself up to be hurt? You're

clearly chasing this guy in which he's trying his best to avoid

you. You would best adviced to play hard to get because at

the rate you're going the only thing that's going to happen is

you're going to get is heartbroken if you don't STOP chasing

this guy.
Reply:If he ignore you, ignore him...he's probably just a lady's man, and can you set yourself on msn as "offline"? If he's still on where you're set on "offline", then he's totally ignoring you.
Reply:I think he likes you as a friend.
Reply:he likes u kinda more than a friend
Reply:He's married and can't talk to you more because of his wife and children.
Reply:he is into someone else right now



he may not know how to tell you or doesn't want to tell you because he may not be that into to her at the moment



I would back off for a while but don't make it too obvious slow things down at a slow pace



example if you would I'M him everyday do it every other day then once a week then stop only talk to him when he calls you



if you really care for him tell him how you feel be honest and ask him to be honest too





good luck
Reply:he might have had feelings for you but as soon as you said you had no one in mind he must have lost hope. try bringing up the subject again and try talking to him as much as possible (but not too much it gets annoying) and maybe little flirty like "aww i miss you!" and when he finally is on break and he manages sometime to meet you then talk to him about the subject and just try to get closer to him.



p.s. it doesnt hurt to dress cute (but not slutty)
Reply:I did not read what you wrote but I figure if you take the time to write all this about him then he mean a lot to you...A long story short he does not like you ...forget about him!!!!!
Reply:i think he is properly busy, studying medicine is not an easy thing. as he say he looking forward in meeting you in person that mean something right? just have patient as he just want to concentrate in his studies to insure his future, you wouldn't want a drop-out guy either. as for the facebook thingy, i think it's nothing.. i send out stuff like that to everyone also.. lol. sometimes things are not as complicated as you might think so don't be too stress-out so much on this matter. what's yours will always be yours.
Reply:i think he's undecided... but i think i also have to agree that if he's undecided it's b/c he's just not that into you.

focus on your studies.
Reply:google the book "he's just not that into you" and read it.. its amazing! best of luck

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